Stuck between Junior and Woman

Being 25 has been fun. It seems like I've lived a lifetime, even though I'm only a quarter of a century old. There is so much still left to life but I feel like I've already accomplished so much. I also like being able to tell my kids I am 25 and not 24. It just seems like an older more mature age, even though I know people say "age is just a number". So why is it that at such a fun age, I'm having the issue of where to shop and what I should wear.

Hear me out.... I went shopping today. Something I haven't done in a while for a couple of different reasons but I was reminded of one of the main reasons when I was walking around forever 21 and then again in the dressing rooms. What in the world does a 25 year old married teacher wear? Every dress I found was ridiculously too short, all the shirts I saw either had a big hole in the back, was see through, or had so many sparkles and sequins that my kids would have thought I was a bottle of glitter. Then I was at Nordstrom and couldn't decide which section I should be in. I'm over in the junior section with these tiny little girls and then in the women's section, the ladies are looking at me like they want to ask me if I've lost my mom. Which got me thinking.... I'm officially stuck between junior and woman.

Maybe you all can help me out here... Am I just getting boring with my style, just getting lazy about what I wear, or do others struggle with this too?

I guess other factors can be part of the issue also... Location and social life affect closet choices, as do what's available close by. Luckily for me...not much is "close" to where I am which only makes it worse. I try on things and right away, my mind starts questioning... "Where would I wear this? Could I wear it to school? Would it look OK with a cardigan? Am I going any where fun to wear it to? Does it make me look even younger than I already do?"

I love gap, banana republic, and little boutiques that I've found through Facebook but want to have some fun with my clothes too. So I'm going to make this an ongoing post because I want to hear back from you all. Let me know your thoughts and maybe I can share some new boutiques that I find along the way.

Thanks for reading my clothing rant. I know you're so glad you stopped in to read about such an exciting topic.

On another note, I'm almost at 1000 page visits. Woohoo. Thanks for making me feel like less of a nerd for writing random thoughts/feelings/rants on here.

One of the pictures I took in Jamaica... Love these flowers




5 comments:

Kennedymommy3 said...

Let me start by saying, I love your blog! But I completely understand where you're coming from on this one. I find I have the same issue, only I'm not a teacher and I'm twenty-seven. However, I am a mother and while I feel I'm not 'old', I don't want to embarrass my kids or myself by dressing like I'm fifteen. I had a conversation with a lady once who's 52 and told me she still shops in juniors. It wasn't that she tried to look young, she just wanted clothes that fit her and the women's clothes didn't. I think it's okay to dress your age and still look respectable. I've been told I sport the 'mommy look' as well as I look like I'm trying to go for fifteen (not on the same day). Sometimes it's hard this find clothes today with all the glitter and sparkles since I'm not really the sparkly kind of girl (or woman??) but I try to pick clothes that I like; clothes that I feel comfortable in wearing. And not just comfortable in that I find comfort in how they fit, but more in how they make me feel. I say dress your age, dress however you want. If the glitz and glam is your style, go for it! If school marm is more your style, well.. go for that. You can find respectable looking clothes in the juniors sections of most stores. I have to give you props though because I have yet to find the courage to venture into the women' s section of any store. Good luck in your futurevshopping adventures.

Carolyn said...

I totally know what you mean!! :) I have issues with that all the time! I think it just takes some luck and lots of hunting to find the perfect pieces. At least for me. :) Good luck!

Found your blog through Shay!! New follower!

Kathleen said...

I totally know what you mean.. it is so hard because we are young but also want to prove ourselves as mature and older in the work place! New follower to your blog :)

Ashley Robyn said...

Carolyn, Thank you for stopping in. I think it is something that we all struggle with at some point, but your right...when you find those perfect pieces we just know. I should tell my husband that I need to do more hunting. :)

Ashley Robyn said...

Kathleen, EXACTLY!!! I'm glad I'm not the only one. Thank you for stopping in and commenting. :)

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